Catch of the Week – Jennifer Solomon – as featured on the 24 Hours Newspaper
Many Vancouverites share the sentiment that dating in Vancouver is difficult. Common complaints range from “all the good people are taken” to “people are stuck in their cliques and not open to meeting...
View ArticleHere’s to Love
One of the things we all have in common is the need and desire for love. Yet while we all want it, it is often the very thing that we fear. Because with matters of the heart – control is only an...
View ArticleChange the Story
You cannot change the events of your history, but you can choose to change the story you have attached to those events. We become the stories we tell ourselves. And if that narrative is negative, we...
View ArticleYour Essence
People will always flock to you because of all the good qualities you present – your success, your popularity, your charisma… Pay attention to those who have the ability to see beyond the good stuff....
View ArticleDon’t Waste Your Headspace on Unavailable Men
Since I was a little girl, I was in a constant quest for validation from the opposite sex. I longed for the validation of another to feel okay with myself. And when you’re still figuring out who you...
View Article24 Hours Catch of the Week: Echo Quan
As published in the 24 Hours Newspaper. I started this series because I constantly hear people complain about the dating culture in Vancouver. I often hear that “all the good ones are taken” or that...
View ArticleGirls Become Women
From books like “The Game” to other pick-up artist gurus, a barrage of tips are taught to men on how to get a woman. Most of the lessons boil down to playing a game – a combination of well-calculated...
View ArticleWhat Do You Stand For and How Do You Show Up?
Yesterday I ran into my friend’s boyfriend and upon my asking where she was, he replied that he made her stay home. He added that she does what he tells her to – that this is what you call “WINNING”....
View ArticleThe Beauty Complex
As little girls, we learn that being cute, pretty and beautiful = good. The importance of beauty is reinforced as we grow up – from our parents, friends, peers, and the greatest maker of norms– the...
View ArticleDare to Disrupt
Stand up for what you believe in. If your values are rooted in the desire to make positive impact in this world, then by all means – speak up, act up. Any great change has stemmed from those few brave...
View ArticlePlease Vote for Me for the YWCA Connecting the Community Award
Hello, Please vote for me for the YWCA Connecting the Community award. If I win, ScotiaBank will donate $10,000 to a program that helps youth with self-esteem, bullying, etc. You can vote once a day....
View Article5 Reasons Why You’re Repelling Men
Through interviewing various people on relationships and observing people interact, coupled with my own experience of the dating dance, I’ve realized that there are some basic tendencies that cause a...
View ArticleA Note of Gratitude to My Readers
Today a stranger sent me a long, thoughtful, message with words of support and encouragement on my move. She offered her own story of facing the fear of moving to a new country and reassured me that...
View ArticleA Love Note
I’ve learned that when it comes to choosing a partner, it is important to match with someone who shares the same belief system. There are some people who are practical for love and some who are crazy...
View ArticleCatch of the Week: Adam Graham
Check out my interview with the 24 Hours Newspaper’s latest ‘Catch of the Week’, Adam Graham. In new stands this weekend or online. Name: Adam Graham Occupation: Financial Advisor What do you look for...
View ArticleDo It For the Story
Our lives are merely chapters of a story. The adventures, the romances, the characters… they are all a part of what makes that final story grand, or unfruitful. So opt for adventure. Take chances....
View ArticleYou Are the Sum of the Company You Keep
When you are confident of your self-worth and have a strong moral compass the more unwavering you must be about about surrounding yourself with people who share the same values. Good intentions aren’t...
View ArticleThe 11 Differences Between Dating a Boy vs a Man
When I was in my early twenties, if a guy acted aloof, called back only sometimes and showed minimal interest, I would get hooked. You could say I was addicted to the bad boy/ unavailable boy/ player....
View Article5 Ways to Design Your Life
I set out two years ago to embark on the next chapter of my life. One of self-discovery, an alignment of values, healing from past wounds and embracing fearlessness. I no longer wanted to be just a...
View ArticleYWCA Women of Distinction Awards
The YWCA Women of Distinction Awards honors individuals and organizations whose activities contribute to the well-being of the community. 2013 marked it’s 30th year, and I was honored to be shortlisted...
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